This is the problem of family education.

Educating children have several errors, we will talk about how to teach a good boy in the minds of parents today.

The first mistake is too much praise or criticism. Appropriate praise help children build self-confidence, too much praise, but just the opposite, such children are often lack of self-awareness, they hope to get the recognition of parents when do some little things, otherwise it will not do ; too much criticism will hurt the child's self-esteem, as long as the parents can refer to where the error occurred, in order to help them to learn.

The second mistake is too much democracy or strength. Children's lack of experience and judgment, the need for parental guidance, too much democracy will spoil the child, become do whatever they want, and too be strong, it will let the children lack the ability to own and independent.

The third mistake is never to punish. If the child has no sense of his mistakes, he will not remember to correct, so when the children make mistakes, parents should be given appropriate punishment, do not blindly spoil the child. 

The fourth mistake is the abuse of incentives. "If you don't play water, after dinner I give you to eat ice cream". The reward method to stop the child's wrong behavior, in fact, bribery of children, this approach will only indulge him again.

The fifth mistake is the parents open quarrel. Children's ability to imitate is very strong, often learn the way and discourse adults quarrel, in case the child "bad", parents should avoid the children in front of a quarrel. And the quarrel will let the children at a loss, serious when more likely to produce psychological shadow, this point parents should pay attention to.

The sixth mistake is never right. If you always think that the child is wrong, it will make him feel incompetent. Even if he is wrong, you can remind him to let him know that you believe he has the ability to do it. Do not use "you always do, never do" this kind of words to accuse him.

The seventh mistake is not to apologize. Mutual respect is an important person to get along with people polite, some parents will only let the children know good manners, but they did not set an example. If your parents are wrong, don't forget to say "sorry" to the children ". Children and their parents should respect each other, so that they can teach children how to apologize. 

Parents are the children's first teacher, the child's healthy growth can not be separated from the family education, so do not always feel that the child is not good, it is not good, to reflect on what you have taught some children. Pay attention to children's health, from my start.

Children suffe from tic disorder, parents how to do?

When found their children suffer from tourette syndrome, a lot of parents, in addition to looking for the doctor to see children ,they can't do anything. this time, they will feel very powerless.

Here to remind you, don't worry, parents can from four aspects to care patients with tourette syndrome.

1. Daily life:

Daily life is regular, such as daily work and fixed time to rest, avoiding patients excessive fatigue or excited, etc.To eat nutritious food, eat more contain vitamin high light vegetables and fruits, do not eat excitant food tartly, not overeating.

2. Psychological care:

For patients to carry out spiritual comfort and positive guidance, to establish a good relationship between nurse and patient, active and conversation, language harmony, more praise and encouragement of language. When the person is angry, don't provoke him, not to scold, patient persuasion, reason, reasoning. Contact with the school teacher, so the teacher to give a positive guidance, the purpose is not to let the students around the children and discrimination, so as to eliminate the inferiority complex, which is conducive to ease the symptoms of tic.

3. The bedroom environment:

Patients in addition to the room environment, in addition to the window ventilation, suitable humidity, temperature, but also to reduce noise. Too strong noise can disturb the balance of excitation and inhibition of the human brain cortex, affecting the normal physiological function of the nervous system, is not conducive to health. Long term living in this environment, will make people feel tired, emotional stress, sleep is not good, serious patients will appear dizziness, memory loss, etc.